Flaming is the practice of attacking people on a personal level. While
flaming is relatively common on the internet, almost everybody will claim
they're opposed to it. They may even flame you for having flamed someone.
It's all really confusing, actually.
However, there are some fairly obvious things. Responding to someone's
analysis of the deficit crisis by telling them that they probably walk funny
or weren't breast fed could easily classify as flaming. Making rude comments
about an individual's sexual organs or religion would also probably
classify.
Personally, I stick to a simple rule: I say nothing about anybody that I
can not back up with facts. I do not comment about people's religions,
their eating habits, whether or not they smoke, etc. If I decide to
comment about someone's level of intelligence, I make sure I have good
examples to support my comment. But even then, I do this very rarely.
Respect other people's privacy
Of
course, you'd never dream of going through your colleagues' desk drawers.
So naturally you wouldn't read their email either.
Unfortunately, a lot of people would. This topic actually rates a separate
section. For now, here's a cautionary tale. I call it
The case of the snoopy foreign correspondent
In 1993, a highly regarded foreign correspondent in the Moscow bureau of
the Los Angeles Times was caught reading his coworkers' email. His
colleagues became suspicious when system records showed that someone had
logged in to check their email at times when they knew they hadn't been
near the computer. So they set up a sting operation. They planted false
information in messages from another one of the paper's foreign bureaus.
The reporter read the notes and later asked colleagues about the false
information. Bingo! As a disciplinary measure, he was immediately
reassigned to another position at the paper's Los Angeles bureau.
The moral: Failing to respect other people's privacy is not just
bad Netiquette. It could also cost you your job.